How To Be A World Changer 

Rule 1:Find Something To Fight For

We all wake up with our own purposes every morning.Some of  us wake up to go to work.Some of us wake up to prepare breakfast.Some of us wake up to go to school.Some of us wake up to go to loo.There are so many reasons which make us wake every morning.My reasons? I'll definitely say MY DREAMS! Every morning while saying hello to a new day I always ask myself "What are you gonna do to come closer to your dreams?"I need to ask this and do something useful for them.Because I found something to fight for and even die for.

We all have so many beautiful dreams.Some of us have dreams which involve just "us" but some of us have dreams which involve "US".I know I wrote the same thing twice but this "US" has a different meaning for me."US" means "Me and World".From the beginning I always want to do great things both for me and the others.Because I'm aware of the fact that I'm not living alone in this world.While I'm writing this and drinking my tea,so many people out there are starving.So many of them don't have any home to live in.So many of them are going through hard days because of the war.So many of them don't have any family or friends to lean on.Some of them have so many dreams but don't have any way to make them come true.Some of them have to hide their personalities,their sexual,political,religious choices.They have no freedom to act like the way they think and feel.Some of them have mental illnesses.Some of them have self-harm issues and even have thoughts about suicide.How can I stay quiet while knowing that so many people are suffering out there!That's why I made my decision.I want to help them all and change this world at least a little.And I will give my everything to make them come true.And "Finding something to fight for" is the first step that you should take on the road of your dreams.

Now first you need to know yourself.You know to ask yourself "What I want? What am I living for? What are my dreams? Where I want to be in 10 years time?"Mark your goal and hit the road! If you don't know where are you going it doesn't matter how much you work.Can you imagine a ship without a route? No? Then mark your goal!

When Christmas Comes

Winter...With Autumn ,definitely my favorite seasons.But I'm not here to talk about Autumn right now.Yes I love it too and yes it makes me feel god damn good as well but winter is more special for me.Why? Definitely because of Christmas! In my lifetime I saw snow only one time because in here If you want to enjoy the real cold and snow,you need to go to high places.And only one time I had this chance.I remember the funny road trip,the meals that we ate and perfect snow.After this,I have never seen snow so far.Just heavy rainstorms and hails.But this is over this year and I will have so many opportunities to enjoy the snow and Christmas when I get to İstanbul!!!I have never enjoyed Christmas.Neither with my friends nor my family.And so many times I fell asleep because I had nothing to do or enjoy.But thank god I will be able to enjoy it as the way people do all around the world.But other than Christmas' itself I'm also excited about Christmas songs.From now,I have prepared my list and definitely,HELL YEAH FROM MARİAH CAREY!

Since I started writing this,I have been listening Mariah's Merry Christmas 2 You album.I have because the joy that I feel in songs inspire me to write about winter.And I think she is the queen of Christmas  songs.Though we are in the middle of summer,now I forget about the heat and season.I feel like I'm in winter and no other singer can make me feel that way.Sounds that used in songs,her voice,emotion,joy and soul...All of these things make feel in winter.Though it is not so realistic at all now,I will both listen this album and feel real cold soon.I'm gonna sing Mariah and just live it up! Maybe first I'm gonna say to my lover "All I Want For Christmas Is You" and later I'm gonna let Mariah bless my ears with "Silent Night and O Holy Night" and I'm gonna just dance with "Oh Santa and Auld Lange Syne" 

Here is my suggestion for you:

Live every single moment of your life with joy and happiness.Don't wait till Christmas to make new plans or changes about your life.Stand up and listen Mariah's Christmas album!Feel like you are on Christmas Day while enjoying the music.Change your view and make plans to get yourself farther.

Define your dreams and work for them!

People always say "I wanna be rich,I wanna have a big house,I wanna have fancy clothes,I wanna travel all around the world,I wanna have a good job..." And whenever I hear those kind of words from them I be happy because I love dreaming about my future and when I see people have dreams and they work for them I be happy for them.But sadly not all of  us are doing the important part:WORKİNG! Yes we all can talk about our dreams,we can say so many things about them but If we never work for them how we can accept them come true?No good thing comes without trying.No good thing comes easily to your hands!You need to take steps to come closer to them.Nobody can help  you ıf you don't fight for them! Don't forget that you are alone in this world and those are your dreams so you cant accept someone to come and help you about them while you are sitting aimlessly.If you really wanna have a fancy future then set your goals and fight for them! Be realistic about them.Know your actual potential and set your goals according to this! Don't accept that you are gonna get it at first place! Sometimes you will have to get through hard times.You will be on the verge of giving up.You will think that you are never gonna make them happen.But no matter what you should keep your faith.You should keep believing in yourself.There will be battles that you will have to fight but don't forget that it is your choice to choose victory or defeat.So stand up and work for your dreams! 

Seray'll Always Be My Friend

Almost everyone in this world has special songs that they listen when they feel god damn happy or terribly sad.Or when they break up with someone or when they have an unrequited love or when they love someone badly.They can listen it to enjoy being alone or to complain about it.Or when they need to stay strong and positive no matter what.They can listen it when they need something to lean on.Or when they need a sound or lyrics to make themselves cry.All of us have their own reasons for having special songs in our lives.And I have such a big precious reason that I will never ever gonna stop listening this song because of the big precious reason.What is my reason? Definitely MY BEST FRİEND!

6 or 7 years ago I heard "Umbrella" when I was in our neighbors' house.I heard it randomly and for a quite little time.But it didn't impress me at all at first place also I didn't have any clue about whom sings this song.But years later,after I discovered Rihanna,this song became the special one for me in time.But I don't know how to explain this "special" because you know when you ask yourself "Why do you like this that much?" generally you don't know how to explain the reason why you love someone or something badly.You can try to explain it and describe the love that you have within for it/him.You can write about it lengthily and talk about it for hours but you can't describe it totally.I feel exactly like this whenever I ask myself  "Why I like this song and her that much?"

Here are my reasons:

I remember the times when I heard "Said I'll always be your friend..." part in Umbrella like "Seray will always be your friend".I know that's funny but during these years I both didn't have as good English as I have now and I was open to make up lyrics before checking the originals.After this made-up I like it so much and dedicated this song to her.I did because there were so many reasons for me to do this.You know I always think that before she came into my life I was not living at all.Yes literally I think like this.Our strong attachment was like my rebirth.Now I don't have any good memories about my life's "Before her part".This part is full of fake friends and lonely days.But after she stepped into my world,every single thing colored.My life,my perspective,my head,my atmosphere....Shortly she broke all my life down and built it up with love and respect.

From the beginning,we've always treated each other with love and respect and never hide our true selves from each other.We never judge each other with our history or something else.We always try to respect each other's history  and hope to welcome our future with happiness.And because I know she will always gonna love me no matter what I do or who I am, I never hide something from her.I always say what I want to say to her straightly.Without second thought or any worry.I can walk around care free with her and I can laugh at something till I get enough.I can eat a meal with her without being careful about my mouth :D I can sing songs to hear and she always listens to me no matter how terrible my voice sounds.I can say so many things that we do freely when we are together.And I think "being as you are and acting freely" are one of the most important thing in friendships.And we have a perfect example.

As I always say "If you love someone truly,distance means nothing".There were so times when we had to stay away from each other and sometimes we didn't have any access to talk on phone.During these times we both kept living our lives in different places but there was not any change about our love.It's always stayed the same.Yes we couldn't talk on the phone but when we heard a Rihanna or Mariah song in somewhere our images came into each other's mind.Or when we stumbled and were about to fall,we smiled and said "If she were in here now we would definitely laugh like a crazy"...Yes we had to stay away from each other so many times but this never affected our love because it is so damn true that distance,time,people or something else never ever gonna tear it down.

To be continued...

Free Your Mind

Problems,fears,worries...While we are saying hello to the new day,we all can have such thoughts in our heads.We can be wondering about what we are gonna see today or we can fear about something.And sometimes we can even afraid to wake up and face the new day.Yes we can start the day with full of bad things but that doesn't mean that we are gonna end up like this.We can free our mines from all of these negatives or we can let them ruin our days.We can knock them out and shut them up or we can let them scream.You can be angry at someone,you can feel sorry about something,you can have a broken-heart....Yes you should feel all of these emotions.You should free yourself to feel these.You have a right to cry and suffer from them.But you don't have any right to ruin your day! Live this pain inside you but don't let it ruin your day.Believe or not this is in your hand so don't be the one who is controlled by his emotions.Be the one who has control over his emotions.If you do this,you can both experience these emotions and embrace them but above all you can learn how to handle them and how to see and welcome the day with positive thoughts

Positive Will Save You

We all get angry sometimes or feel terrible,sad about something.These emotions are quite normal and we all can experience these things almost everyday.But not all of us get through these emotions in the same way.Some of us after suffering from them choose moving on as rapidly as we can.But some of us keep suffering from them like these emotions are good and useful for us.These people always try to make big deals out of the little things.They make themselves feel worse all the time.Though they can find the peace and solution within them,they choose to stay negative and keep talking about how they feel terrible.But why we always do this?Are we that much blind to can't see the positive side of it? Or though we see the truth is clear,we pretend like not seeing it? Or we like always talking about our problems but not learning a lesson from them? There may be so many reasons for this but there is only one solution: To see the positive side and moving on!If you manage to see bad side and pretend like you don't see the good side,you can see the good side too.Just focus on good things and don't exaggerate your problems!Don't try to create new nonsense problems to yourself! Just see the bright side and enjoy your life! Because that darkness in your head can ruin your life but positive will always save you! 

They Can't Take That Away From Me

From the beginning of her career,Mariah has always tried to give a message to the people by her songs.She did this not only during her tough years but also did during her top years.She have made songs about so many things but when someone says "Mariah" her songs about the hard days or being strong or loving yourself come into my mind mainly.Because you may not like someone's songs about love,sex or something else but almost everyone likes the songs about being strong,loving yourself,loving other people or world's peace...Because everyone in this world can experience one of these things during their lifetimes.They like these kind of songs because they can see some parts of their lives in lyrics.

You know sometimes we don't have anyone on whom we can lean and open up our hearts without any worry.At these times these kind of songs can be our friends.Even can be more than a human because people can judge you for the things that you got through but music cant do this to you.It can listen to you and give you a power to rise from the ground.But don't judge you.And Mariah's songs like Through the Rain,Hero,Can't Take That Away From Me,Fly Like a Bird,Bye Bye,Heavenly,My Saving Grace always give me power to keep on living my life no matter what happens and give me a lesson to love myself as the way I'm and give me a hope to go after my dreams no matter what they say.

So now find yourself something to lean on when times get hard for you to handle.Find yourself songs,movies,series,photos....Find yourself a thing to feel free,happy and strong.Because there will always be people who try to tear you down and you will be down because of them sometimes.They will say "You cant do this,you are just a dreamer,these dreams are too hard for you to accomplish.just forget about them..." Or there will be hard days to trip you up.You will have to fight against yourself sometimes! But you don't have to worry about all of these bad things.Just find your support and keep on doing what you believe!There is a light in yourself and don't let anyone kill this! 

There is a light in me

That shines brightly

They can try but

They can't take that away from me